From what you’re saying, he seems to be interested in you. If you like him too, just give him some hints that you’re feeling the same. Get to know more about him and you will have a clearer idea of whether or not he’s serious and only acts this way to you, assuming and scaring yourself won’t do any good. If you can’t get a clear answer and are still unsure after awhile, I’d say the best way is to ask him directly. Yes, it could be horrifying and awkward and stuff, but you don’t want to go about making assumptions then regret it later for acting based on things which you overthink. 

To be completely honest with you, I’m no expert in this area either. I have a hard time letting go, even more so if it’s someone who you love deeply. But you know what? Since you realize that this person is no good for you, you’re off to a good start. It’s critical for you to accept the fact that you and that person won’t work out, and that you two could be better without each other. Envision your life without that person, imagine all positive changes, all the other wonderful possibilities and let it be your motivations. The next step is to minimize communication and contact with that person, the best is entirely, but I know in life there’s no dry cut to anything. However, if you must, just remind yourself of why seeing this person is no good for you. Instead of keep thinking about that person, fill your day with other things, doing stuff that you like, spend time on yourself, read a book, talk to a friend. I know at some point my answer is going toward a rehab from an addiction direction, and I apologize, but this was how I let go of someone. I know it is hard, if you believe that it’s for the better, you can do it. Things will get better, be strong! I wish you all the best! 

Someone who I care about (I’d assume it’s someone other than my family):

My soul sister - we’ve known each other for almost 2 years and we’ve been really close, if I wasn’t being confined by these “obligations” in my life and actually have time for a life, we could have been even closer, like blood sister kind of close. She’s my first and only friend who I find this connection with here, and I’ve been here for 6 years already. I love you a whole lot, please don’t ever leave me. 

My ex/???: I don’t even know what we are right now tbh. But he’s been my biggest mental support system ever since he entered my life. He was the one who has always been there for me, love me, support me through some of the most difficult times I’ve faced. Recently, something I did…hurts him a great deal, breaks his heart, and I thought he would leave me for good, but he didn’t. I realized how blind I was then, to not able to see how much he must have loved me. 

My BFFs + my “big bro” + drakecat

Sorry I cheat. I ended up listing more than one person ^^; Hope you don’t mind, anon ~ 

Something that broke me is seeing the people who I love and care deeply about get hurt, seeing them experience helplessness and suffer injustice while I couldn’t do anything to help them, couldn’t find the right words to comfort them or make them feel better. 

39. Three names you go by…

Most people calls me Anh, the rest calls me Keroppi and he calls me 月英 or 親愛的

Tumblr ask is being weird. I answered and published but nothing came up, so I accidentally clicked and published an unanswered ask…Anyhow

34. How late did you stay up last night and why?

But I didn’t really stay up late last night though…I went to bed right after messaging my wifey on Skype (~12:15am)..I stayed up till that time coz I was waiting for my hair to dry and scrolling on Tumblr while I was at it lol 

Of course, I want it. What’s so wrong with expressing my like and interest in something if it doesn’t hurt anyone? And to be honest, I don’t care what people think ╮(─▽─)╭, how often does anyone come into my bedroom anyway? I’m sure my little cousins don’t mind, they would even think it’s cool. Thanks for your concern though. 

Hi anon, to me the best way to know for sure is asking her directly or you can really tell from her actions, for example how she acts around you. If she likes you she will want and try to be with you all the time, be it talking on the phone or be with you in person. You can asked her to play a game with you when you two can ask each other 3 questions or sth and the other need to answer it honestly. I just did it this afternoon and it turns out pretty well :3

Hope my answer helps!! Have a nice day :D 

p/s: I’m really sorry it took me this long to answer your question….I hope you still check back for the answer TT^TT 

Hi anon, “nhé” doesn’t really have any special grammar function in a sentence. It only serves as to accentuate/stress the meaning of the sentence, to plead, and to direct that meaning intended for the person you’re speaking to. Eg: Have a great day nhé = You, please have a really great day. 

………I suck at explaining stuff…so I hope that make sense to you…..And hope you have a great day too (^o^)／

;____; Please come off anon and let me hug you. You’re so sweet. I know I shouldn’t complain so much, but sometimes I just feel so helpless and exhausted. And believe or not, but I do feel guilty for complaining…I will try my best, or die trying, I won’t give up. Thank you for making me feel better. WIsh you happiness everyday :x 

Hello there ~ I can speak Vietnamese and English fluently, I’m still learning Chinese, so I don’t consider myself fluent in Mandarin just yet. And I’m happy to receive your ask, so don’t ever feel sorry ^^ What is the third language you’re learning? Aww, thank you for being so nice, I have never thought that I’m giving encouragement to anyone. I believe you will be able to learn and master it if you really have a passion to learn. Wish you all the best ^x^ 

Love you too :”> Pliz come off anon so we can be together forever.